I know I'm late to the parade (and only repeating what has been said before) but I've just been out to the hangar and had a 'play' with the latest iterations of everything I own to check they are all behaving themselves properly. I'm pleased to say they are.
I updated my iPad Mini 4 to 14.0.1
iPhone 8 is 14.0.1
SkyDemon is 3.14.4.260
PilotAware Firmware Updater (on iPhone and iPad Mini) is 1.7.5
My previous Pilot Aware version was a Beta of the latest so, to make sure all was oranges and oranges, I updated the PAW to 20200906 (using the Firmware Updater, which worked flawlessly and took but seconds to do
).
Using the existing UDP connection setting in my PAW, i.e. WITHOUT selecting the SkyDemon connection (in third party equipment) to Flarm, I told SkyDemon to 'go flying'. It sent me a brief message along the lines of 'use third party equipment', to which I assented and the SkyDemon connected immediately. No hanging and deciding whatsoever. This happened when using both my iPad and iPhone, so I see no snags at all with using PAW 20200906, SkyDemon 3.14.4.260 and iPad/Phone 14.0.1. When trying again to connect I was not asked again for permission to use the third party device and SkyDemon just connected straight away to both devices.
Due to being lazy and not logging out of one of the i devices in order to log on another, I didn't try my old iPhone 5 on SkyDemon but it connected to PAW with no problems, so I don't think there will be any issues with that if I ever needed it.
Now to make some sloe gin as there's nothing of interest on my ATOM station
Edited to add: PS: Gary, is your PAW version (20200909) a slip of the typing finger as I can only get 20200906?