Russ,
The screenshot Ian has asked for will help us to confirm the cause, but I agree that the most likely causes of this problem are wrong ICAO Hex ID set in PilotAware (it automatically sets a 'default' non-ICAO hex for use in unregistered aircraft or as a base station), or in your transponder. To enable filtering, you MUST set your official ICAO hex as per 'G-INFO' in both units. If you want to use the PAW in different aircraft, you can configure different aircraft profiles in the PAW 'Configure' Screen, saving each in turn, but remember to select the correct aircraft profile whenever you change it to a new aircraft.
As you have a transponder, you MUST run 'Mode C/S Select' in the 'Mode CS + Filter (Beta)' setting option.
I would also recommend much greater separation between your antennas. Squirting 100Watts + from a transponder directly into your PilotAware antenna at short range will at best desensitise it (make it deaf) and at worst could do it some serious harm.
Let us know how you get on.
Best Regards
Peter