Fixed it!!
After loads more diagnotsics including the latest firmware update, buying a new WiFi Dongle and messing around with Wireless settings I focussed my attention on the fact it MUST be the tablet at fault (
Mine is a TAB3 8/TB3-850F), something was clearly getting in the way of the data stream coming into the tablet.
I noticed, hidden amongst the list of system apps, was Macafee, (my most loathed of antivirus/firewall packages). Running at this level it couldn't be stopped or uninstalled or any settings changed.
So, taking the bit between my teeth, I boot unlocked and rooted the tablet following the instructions
HERE for anyone who may care to try them in the future. Anyone attempting this, it's not for the faint hearted if you haven't done such before, will completely wipe and reset your device to factory settings also and you run the risk of bricking the device altogether if you don't follow the steps correctly or do it on a tablet that isn't exactly the same.
The result was that I was now able to uninstall Macafee. Finally, the disconnections have gone away completely. I have had my tablet running with Skydemon connected flawlessley to the Pilotaware for four hours now and the moving of ADSB targets is noticeably MUCH smoother than it was before.
I cannot be 100% certain that removing Macafee or the Rooting is the actual cause of the fix as I was too keen to see if I could get rid of the piece of #### that I forgot to do any testing before! I highly suspect some form of software firewall was being too aggressive getting in the way of both UDP and TCP traffic.