Hi
I just came across your thread and it seems like you could achieve better results with just simple colinear-type aerials, i.e. those listed as with gain; 3db, 5db etc. These effectively "stack" aerials on top of each other and increase gain in the horizontal plane whilst reducing the gain vertically. This will have the effect of increasing reception range towards the horizon but reducing it above and below the aircraft. Your comments beg the question how far do you need to see, bearing in mind 5,000 ft should be more than enough above and below? Similarly, how distant do you need to see horizontally? It's always a compromise and a trade-off. Also, be aware the P3i is limited to 0.5W ERP (As far as I can remember), so you shouldn't be adding "gainy" aerials to this part of the PAW system.
As for joining aerials together, to do it properly and achieve the desired radiation pattern, you need aerials that are mounted at specific distances apart, known good aerial VSWR's that are fairly closely matched and phasing harnesses or power dividers/combiners made for the frequencies in question. With the aerials side-by-side and vertically polarised, you will achieve gain at 90 degrees to the plane of the aerials, i.e. one either side of the cockpit gives increased range in front and behind PROVIDED they are the requires spacing of (As far as I can remember) multiples of 1/2 wavelengths apart.
As Peter says, just joining 2 or more aerials together may appear to work on receive but it is not optimal because of the incorrect impedance and phasing, whilst transmitting into such a setup can quickly destroy the transmitter output device. Minicircuits make various splitter/combiners and a typical one that would do the job is:
https://www.minicircuits.com/WebStore/dashboard.html?model=ZN2PD-183W-S%2B but it's not cheap! I use a similar 4-port one for a stacked and bayed 4 element array at 1296MHz for Amateur TV, but it was bought at a radio rally as surplus for £2.
Maybe consider mounting the aerials as far forward and in the centre of the windscreen as possible with a clear view forward. After all, that's where the biggest threat would be. Targets behind are less of a threat whilst those to the sides, above and below are medium risk.
Frank.